Monday, June 1, 2015
Both boys are home. I love having them home but I think I'm enjoying it more than they are. We are re-acquainting ourselves with the spaces we share. Remembering to respect each others' boundaries and remembering that we stay even after they leave...this remains our home if/when/should they move out. And trying to give them space and privacy because they aren't twelve anymore...regardless of what the occasional bickering might make one think otherwise - who's turn is it to clean the bathroom? Cause their mother isn't cleaning up after them anymore. It's going to be an interesting summer.
Speaking of homes...I have noticed something since we've become semi empty nesters. My house is now WAY too big. It was great when the boys were home all the time and their friends were in and out with them. But when it's just Car Guy and me rattling around, it's huge. Downsizing may be in our future. But there are be so many possibilities in our future that have yet to resolve themselves. Time will tell.
Another thing that has time kicking about in my head is getting back in touch with a dear friend from my past. She was one of my college roommates. We lived together for 2 years and were always really close. Then I got married and pregnant years before she did and we lost touch for a while....10 years is a while, right? She came over last night. We sat out on the back porch, watching the drizzle, reminiscing and getting to know each other again. It was wonderful to see that time meant nothing as far as our friendship is concerned. The days may have passed but it's like we were never separated. It was fun to point out ourselves in our children too each other particularly when we didn't recognize it ourselves. And it's reassuring to realize that while time has changed us in our place in life, it hasn't changed our deep friendship that was formed so long ago....28 years ago definitely qualifies for a long time ago. The best part of last night was the laughter...that was brilliant! You know the belly aching, tears running down your face type of laughter caused by memories of how silly we were all those years ago when we thought we were so mature? We got our first apartment together and shared so much.
We've vowed not to let each other slip away again and I know we both mean it. And guess what?!?!?! She knits! Sort of. As she said, " I've knitted blankets, I just don't know how to finish them." No problem! You came to the right place.
So please forgive me if I'm just a bit nostalgic. I feel change coming and I welcome the journey as long is it's okay to hold onto to a few things from the past.
Tuesday, January 27, 2015
|Not my test knitting.|
I've been doing a lot of knitting lately. I could tell you about it and show you, but then I'd have to kill you....Shhh.....It's secret test knitting...for a designer. It's pretty freaking cool to do this.
My boys.,...sigh. They are pretty much grown now. Number One Son is still in college and is twenty-one now...YIKES. He's living at home and struggling with what he wants to be when he grows up. Don't we all? But I know whatever he decides, he'll do it well. Number Two Son is nineteen and a freshman at UNC Charlotte. He loves it - probably a bit too much - but he's learning and that's a plus. He can't decide between a degree in Math or Music. Did I mention how smart and talented my boys are? (Modest mom...not)
Car Guy is still the same loving, funny constant in my life. He's still restoring the Porsche 914, but it looks a bit different now.
Hope everyone is doing well. I'll pop back in occasionally and let you know the progress of things. Until then...take care!